Grattitude for Barnes & Noble

by Sandy Weiner on March 14, 2010

The power is out all over the tri-state area. Yesterday’s storm took down tress and power lines all over my neighborhood. This morning, my friend walked over for a cup of coffee cooked on my gas stove, and announced that 70,000 residents had reported power outages. It is estimated that it will take several days to restore power. As we walked around my neighborhood, the damage was devastating. Trees and branches had fallen on cars, roofs, and blocked streets. I consider myself lucky. My only damage so far was a downed segment of my wooden fence. My fear is that without working sump pumps, my basement could flood. But overall, I am filled with gratitude for the blessing of an intact home. [click to continue…]

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Your Unique Voice

by Sandy Weiner on March 12, 2010

I have very little patience for repetition. At first glance, this week’s Torah portion, V’yakhel-Pekudei, is a repeat of the portion we read two weeks ago, outlining all the minute (and at first glance boring) details about the construction of the portable holy temple and its furnishings. Two portions ago, G-d told Moses these laws, and now Moses is retelling the details to the Israelites. Why the repetition? And is it really repeated or is there something new in the second telling? [click to continue…]

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One of These Things Doesn’t Belong Here

by Sandy Weiner on March 11, 2010

How do you know if he’s the ‘one’? Have you been on so many bad dates, that the thought of getting dressed for another one feels like work? Many singles are disgusted with the dating scene. It feels so unnatural to date someone you met online, and yet, there are hundreds of thousands of singles registered on online dating sites. Not to mention the sleazy married people masquerading as singles. What’s a girl or guy to do in order to increase their dating success? [click to continue…]

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Five Tips for Growing Your Business

by Sandy Weiner on March 8, 2010

I am in the pre-launch stages of my new coaching business; percolating new ideas, writing curriculum for workshops, and talking, talking, talking to everyone about my exciting new niche: Dating After Divorce Coaching. I am targeting women over forty, who are having some difficulty in dating after divorce. And I am very excited!

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First Impressions

by Sandy Weiner on March 4, 2010

Last night, after rushing from picking up my daughter at the train station to feeding my kids dinner, I traveled a half-hour during rush hour traffic to get to a networking event at EWN. I was a bit frazzled as I entered the lecture on networking etiquette, but I was not nervous at all. I walked in with confidence. Over the past year, I have gone from being anxious and a little nauseous to feeling at ease and comfortable with networking events. I owe that ease to the many skills I have learned along the way, the most important being, Just Do It. Feel the fear, but do it anyway. The more I do, the easier it gets.

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Breathing New Life

March 3, 2010

I remember my first time. I was driving in a neighborhood about a half hour from my home, and there they were at the end of someone’s driveway, exposed and begging for a second chance: twin oak headboards and footboards, in mint condition and perfect for my kids’ bedroom! With a quickening of my heart [...]

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Everyday Miracles

February 28, 2010

Back in Biblical times, when the Jewish people left Egypt, they witnessed one amazing miracle after another. From the nature-defying splitting of the Red Sea to the awe-inspiring capacity to draw water from a rock, miracles were abound. And yet, the Jewish people were constantly complaining. No sooner had they crossed the sea to dry [...]

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I Am, I Can, I Will!

February 26, 2010

Yesterday was another example of the Universe changing course and good things happening because I went with the flow. It was another case in point that we can’t control the outcome of anything, but if we are open to what might happen, we can experience great things.
I had signed up for a luncheon lecture by [...]

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Five Tips for Change That Sticks

February 25, 2010

Life is rarely a smooth road. The bumps can be difficult to navigate and sometimes throw you off course. Change can feel hard. Whether you are trying to lose weight, change a job, leave a spouse, adjust to an empty nest, whatever your challenge is, it doesn’t have to be that hard.
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The Love Doctor

February 19, 2010

Call me Doctor Love. I happened upon this new career by accident, as I stumbled through the sometimes daunting, often exciting adventure of dating after divorce. Through my own trial and error of dating, I discovered that I am much better at understanding men the second time around. Whether it’s due to my maturity, self-confidence, [...]

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