One of These Things Doesn’t Belong Here

by Sandy Weiner on March 11, 2010

How do you know if he’s the ‘one’? Have you been on so many bad dates, that the thought of getting dressed for another one feels like work? Many singles are disgusted with the dating scene. It feels so unnatural to date someone you met online, and yet, there are hundreds of thousands of singles registered on online dating sites. Not to mention the sleazy married people masquerading as singles. What’s a girl or guy to do in order to increase their dating success? [click to continue…]

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Five Tips for Growing Your Business

by Sandy Weiner on March 8, 2010

I am in the pre-launch stages of my new coaching business; percolating new ideas, writing curriculum for workshops, and talking, talking, talking to everyone about my exciting new niche: Dating After Divorce Coaching. I am targeting women over forty, who are having some difficulty in dating after divorce. And I am very excited!

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First Impressions

by Sandy Weiner on March 4, 2010

Last night, after rushing from picking up my daughter at the train station to feeding my kids dinner, I traveled a half-hour during rush hour traffic to get to a networking event at EWN. I was a bit frazzled as I entered the lecture on networking etiquette, but I was not nervous at all. I walked in with confidence. Over the past year, I have gone from being anxious and a little nauseous to feeling at ease and comfortable with networking events. I owe that ease to the many skills I have learned along the way, the most important being, Just Do It. Feel the fear, but do it anyway. The more I do, the easier it gets.

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Breathing New Life

by Sandy Weiner on March 3, 2010

I remember my first time. I was driving in a neighborhood about a half hour from my home, and there they were at the end of someone’s driveway, exposed and begging for a second chance: twin oak headboards and footboards, in mint condition and perfect for my kids’ bedroom! With a quickening of my heart and the thrill of a sneaky adolescent, I pulled my car to the curb, opened the back of my forest green station wagon, and shoved in my newfound treasures.

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Everyday Miracles

by Sandy Weiner on February 28, 2010

Back in Biblical times, when the Jewish people left Egypt, they witnessed one amazing miracle after another. From the nature-defying splitting of the Red Sea to the awe-inspiring capacity to draw water from a rock, miracles were abound. And yet, the Jewish people were constantly complaining. No sooner had they crossed the sea to dry land, saved from the Egyptians, they were whining to Moses about the water situation. Manna fell from the sky every day so they were never hungry, yet they complained about the lack of meat. How could the Jewish nation be so ungrateful?

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I Am, I Can, I Will!

February 26, 2010

Yesterday was another example of the Universe changing course and good things happening because I went with the flow. It was another case in point that we can’t control the outcome of anything, but if we are open to what might happen, we can experience great things.
I had signed up for a luncheon lecture by [...]

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Five Tips for Change That Sticks

February 25, 2010

Life is rarely a smooth road. The bumps can be difficult to navigate and sometimes throw you off course. Change can feel hard. Whether you are trying to lose weight, change a job, leave a spouse, adjust to an empty nest, whatever your challenge is, it doesn’t have to be that hard.
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The Love Doctor

February 19, 2010

Call me Doctor Love. I happened upon this new career by accident, as I stumbled through the sometimes daunting, often exciting adventure of dating after divorce. Through my own trial and error of dating, I discovered that I am much better at understanding men the second time around. Whether it’s due to my maturity, self-confidence, [...]

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Wild Things

February 17, 2010

I almost forgot how much I enjoy painting. The sensuality of blending the acrylic paint colors, the wonder of making something from nothing. My eighteen year-old son had been bugging me for months to paint a scene from the book, Where the Wild Things Are, by Maurice Sendak. It was one of his favorite [...]

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Do Not Betray Your Soul

February 16, 2010

I first heard the beautiful poem, The Invitation, by Oriah Mountain Dreamer, in coaching school. I remember how, four years ago, it touched my heart with a sense of knowing, finding myself deep in its words. I happened upon it again this morning in a compassionate blog post by Ronna Detrick of Renegade Conversations, and [...]

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