Say a Little, Do a Lot

by Sandy Weiner on November 12, 2009

PB110002In the Torah portion that we read in synagogue this week, Abraham greets three guests who are visiting after his circumcision. It is exceedingly hot, it’s the third and most painful day of recovery after he has circumcised himself (!!),  and he is visited by three angels. Abraham is a model for welcoming guests. He quickly goes to work for them, preparing food and drink, washing their feet, anticipating their needs, in spite of his pain and the extreme heat. He doesn’t talk a lot, but he takes action, and it gives him great pleasure to serve the needs of his guests.

There is a Hebrew saying, “Say a little, do a lot” that I have illustrated as today’s AEDM entry. Abraham was the perfect example of this. Many people talk a big talk, but when it comes to follow-through and action steps, they falter. It is essential to take action if we commit to something. Otherwise, we are all talk, which doesn’t amount to much in the long run.

Whenever I want to be accountable to my goals, I say them out loud. Once it’s out there in the open, I feel the need to follow-through with action. I have made a public declaration. Now the work begins. And I don’t want to embarrass myself by not making it happen to the best of my ability.

Last night, I got the cutest phone message from my son in Israel. He took my challenge to heart, and reported his detailed action plan towards achieving his goal of becoming a famous musician. He began with waking up, breakfast, and then writing music, forming a band, finding open mike nights for performing, posting his work on You Tube, recording CDs, ending with dinner and sleep. I loved how he included waking, eating and sleeping in his action plan. Very well thought out for an eighteen year-old! He will take action, and he is no longer all talk. I am proud of my boy.

Can you think of a time when you took action and said very little?

  • renee
    I love what you did with your son, Sandy. I need to do the same with mine. He is in the same program in Israel as your son and the two of them have been making music together. But Jake only knows that he has a passion for music. He has no goals and no plan for achieving his goals. My husband and I do want him to go to college; my husband has made a career out of music and regrets not having other skills as well. He does not want Jake to only rely on making a living through music.

    I think that getting Jake to flesh out his goals will help him clarify what it is that he wants to do. He needs to become responsible to set and follow through with some clear actions! Thanks for the inspiration!
  • My son was able to flesh it out to the extent that an 18 year old can plan his life. But what a great skill to have, the ability to imagine your future and take action towards achieving your goals. I wish I had that kind of guidance growing up. and I am grateful that I have it now! Good luck with Jake. If you need help, let me know...
  • Ana
    Dear Sandy,
    These words are very wise, and very true for all who engage in their life path. I feel that I have always been more of an active being, rather than a talker although knowing full well what I'm here to do. I feel more vibrant when I just go with my own flow and engage in life experience. Talking about doing something doesn't feel as alive as actually being in that moment and doing it. :)
  • Julie~
    Well said! I look forward to hearing specifics.

    Leah~
    Thanks for your comment about saying goals out loud. It's nice to know that there is a shared reality... And thanks for noticing the letters. I have been playing with the Hebrew alphabet forever. I love the flow of the letters, and there is a lot of hidden meaning there!

    Shannon~
    I love the simplicity of your comment. Well said and to the point!
  • simplicity is a good thing and there's so much power in mindful, conscious action. thanks for sharing.
  • i agree, saying goals out loud can be a powerful thing.

    love the way you filled the hebrew letters with designs!
  • I like to say "It is easier done than said." Too much verbage tends to distort the flow and discussion with others can quash momentum completely. Great story: will be thinking of specifics now!
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